Love Dare Day 3 is Love is not selfish or as Paul would say, “love does not seek her own” (1 Corinthians 13:5). We asked to answer these questions:
1. Do I truly want what’s best for my husband or wife?
2. Do I want them to feel loved by me?
3. Do they believe I have their best interests in mind?
4. Do they see me as looking out for myself first?
This chapter closes with Philippians 2:3, “Do nothing from selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard one another as more important than yourselves.” The Dare for Day 3 is “Whatever you put your time, energy, and money into will become more important to you. It’s hard to care for something you are not investing in. Along with restraining from negative comments, buy your spouse something that says, ‘I was thinking of you today.’” Since my wife has been sick for a couple of days, I bought her some flowers to cheer her up.